Legal & Safety Center
Who’s Down IRL™ is a platonic social discovery and meetup platform — not a dating or hookup app. Meet people. Make plans. Go IRL. Members must be 18 or older. Everything that governs your membership — and everything we can tell you about staying safe — lives here.
Effective August 24, 2026 · Last updated August 24, 2026
Strictly 18+
No one under 18 may register, create a profile, message members, or join or host meetups.
Joining is free
There is no membership fee to join Who’s Down IRL™.
$2 verification fee
A one-time identity-verification fee — not a membership charge, and not a guarantee of successful verification.
Safety
Practical guidance for meeting new people in real life.
- Safety CenterWhat to do before, during and after a meetup — plus what verification can and can’t tell you.
- Community GuidelinesThe plain-language rules for how members treat each other here.
- Reporting, Blocking & EnforcementHow to block or report someone, and what happens after you do.
- Verification PolicyEmail, phone and Stripe Identity verification — including the $2 verification fee.
Legal
The agreements that govern your membership.
- Terms of ServiceEligibility, conduct, meetups, payments, liability and termination.
- Privacy PolicyWhat we collect, how it’s used, who processes it, and your choices.
- Acceptable Use PolicyA detailed list of activity that is never allowed on the platform.
- Payment, Subscription & Refund PolicyMembership is free. Here’s exactly what is and isn’t charged.
- Event Host PolicyWhat we expect from members who create and host activities.
- Intellectual Property & CopyrightBrand and software rights, your content, and copyright complaints.
- Cookie & Tracking NoticeThe storage and analytics technologies actually used in the app.
Help
Reach a human, or tell us something isn’t working.
Who’s Down IRL™ support is not an emergency service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first.